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Rochester, Minnesota | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

First name
I Can Speak
I Would Describe Myself As
No membership so I try to catch free days.(have not seen any for months so not sure how to chat with anyone anymore and can't afford membership)....pure blood, very awake to what's happening in the world,, Loving, caring, honest, creative, empathetic, sympathetic, always there for others,but getting less as I cut out the users, looking for friendship first due to having been in a 23 year abusive marriage(going to be very cautious before considering anything beyond friendship), I have osteoarthritis, chronic intractable migraine, fibromyalgia and have had 3 hip replacement surgeries of which I am allergic to the titanium of so need someone very understanding as I deal with a lot of pain and fatigue. I can't get around like I used to and some days I can barely move. I love animals, going to movies, just hanging out, going to haunts, short road trips. I do what I can around my disabilities. Super loyal to a honest person. Looking for a good man (you need to know the difference between a nice man and a good man) a very kindred spirit, friendship first (no rushing or pushing), not looking for a hook up either, I'm about as honest and loyal as they come, too blunt cause I speak my mind for others. Wish there was a way to get to know you without waiting for free days

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are
My Ethnicity Is
My Marital Situation Is
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
My Best Feature Is
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
I Have One Or More Of These
Willing To Relocate


My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
My Speciality Is
Medical / Health
My Job Title Is
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Socially
I Drink
Yes - Socially


Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Movies, Internet, Theater, Travel, Gardening, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Getting to know you in a non pressure environment. Having you join me on one of my acting adventures see what I do.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Scuba diving, travel to Ireland, Scottland and more, Bahamas, hot air balloon ride, go on Cruises, I like seeing new places, exploring the thrift stores and nooks and crannies of places too. Most importantly...the adventure of being with someone who truly, honestly, loves me for me
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy


My Religion Is
My Political Views Are
My Goal In Life Is
To be me and be back to my happiest again and have someone to share and enjoy life with
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic


On Tv, I Always Watch
Movies, I Wish I Had A Tv, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Metal, Classical, New age, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read
I Don't Like Reading
My Idea Of Fun Is
I want to travel, go to museums, explore new places while I still can. Joining my pirate crew for events, just for fun.I am part of 5 different crews and 1 of my favorites is a made up one of our own that's just for fun and we dress for fun too.
I Like Halloween and would like to be involved in a haunt again. Going to movies, walking my dog, enjoying nature, too much to list.
(I just want to note...i seem outgoing...but only when I'm in costume and/or with people I know have my back can I do these things.) TRUST is huge to me!!

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
A passive man is not a peaceful man,but a harmless one and therefore can be controlled.
I am looking for what this refers to...."You can't truly call yourself peaceful unless you're capable of great violence. If you're not capable of great violence then you're not peaceful; you're harmless."
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Committed, Other