Searching for Gentle Kind Patience
gentlepatience
Havertown, Pennsylvania | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English, Hebrew
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a single Jewish stay at home mother who loves to sing, garden, read, learn everything, teach my children & take care of them.
I have degrees in math, astronomy & physics; almost completed grad school, hope to go back & finish someday.
My 9yo misses a lot of school due to med & phys disabilities, so I homeschool him whenever he can't be in class. We both love working together in this way, playing together, snuggling while I read books to him & he's just starting to read small books to me! He is brilliant in math, social studies, science.
My 15yo is sev'ly mentally ill, sadly needs to live in a facility. I still love him, work with his doctors & therapists to try to help him get the best treatment.
My 9yo understands his disabilities & we work together to get him stronger & build new skills every day.
A a caretaker I must start taking care of me, so here I am! It is time to start building a life that is for just me, where I allow the nurses to sometimes watch over my little one & find joy on my own now and then.
I LOVE to sing, especially in the synagogue & in musicals. I LOVE to learn & to read. Historical fic & Jewish fic, especially fic accounts of real events. Also sci fi, heavy on the sci.
I love gardening. We used to live in a small house on an acre of wooded land in the middle of the forest in Amish country, where there were more cows than cars. I had a huge garden of raspberries, string beans, strawberries, snow peas, pumpkins, sunflowers, corn & cucumbers. The children would play in the fenced in part of the forest, as I watched over them while reading books & swinging in my hammock under the trees. I would love to have that someday again.
I have asthma: can't eat certain foods or even be near people eating certain foods; can't be around most chemical & artificial smells; I tire easily. I have arthritis which also tires me & makes me not quite as strong as I used to be. I have diabetes, and must watch what I eat carefully, and pay close attention to the signals of my body regarding sugar highs and lows. I am on many many meds. I recently fractured vertebrae, herniated disks & impinged on a nerve. Because of this I am using a walker. I don't know yet when or if I'll ever get out of it. I'm working hard to heal, trying to overcome & be independent in whatever I can do, working towards asking for help & accepting myself as I am, however that nay be. I have PTSD from both my childhood and my marriage. That is something to talk about more, privately.
I am gentle, kind, very slow to anger unless someone messes with my kids. Then I turn into some combination of a mother lion and mother bear. With people who are kind to my children, I do not show anger very much at all, I try to softly talk things out until all misunderstandings are resolved peacefully. Though when this happens I will probably cry. I don't like to hurt anybody ever, I am scared of someone seriously hurting me in anger again, I work hard to be as kind and caring as I can possibly be.
I long for gentle slow safe touch. I have so rarely had that in my life, &I long to find a man with whom I can share this experience in a way that brings me the difficult-to-achieve-feeling and knowledge that I am safe. I have had this miraculous touch before, a little. I'd like more, with someone who cares about me, who perhaps I will eventually love.
I have degrees in math, astronomy & physics; almost completed grad school, hope to go back & finish someday.
My 9yo misses a lot of school due to med & phys disabilities, so I homeschool him whenever he can't be in class. We both love working together in this way, playing together, snuggling while I read books to him & he's just starting to read small books to me! He is brilliant in math, social studies, science.
My 15yo is sev'ly mentally ill, sadly needs to live in a facility. I still love him, work with his doctors & therapists to try to help him get the best treatment.
My 9yo understands his disabilities & we work together to get him stronger & build new skills every day.
A a caretaker I must start taking care of me, so here I am! It is time to start building a life that is for just me, where I allow the nurses to sometimes watch over my little one & find joy on my own now and then.
I LOVE to sing, especially in the synagogue & in musicals. I LOVE to learn & to read. Historical fic & Jewish fic, especially fic accounts of real events. Also sci fi, heavy on the sci.
I love gardening. We used to live in a small house on an acre of wooded land in the middle of the forest in Amish country, where there were more cows than cars. I had a huge garden of raspberries, string beans, strawberries, snow peas, pumpkins, sunflowers, corn & cucumbers. The children would play in the fenced in part of the forest, as I watched over them while reading books & swinging in my hammock under the trees. I would love to have that someday again.
I have asthma: can't eat certain foods or even be near people eating certain foods; can't be around most chemical & artificial smells; I tire easily. I have arthritis which also tires me & makes me not quite as strong as I used to be. I have diabetes, and must watch what I eat carefully, and pay close attention to the signals of my body regarding sugar highs and lows. I am on many many meds. I recently fractured vertebrae, herniated disks & impinged on a nerve. Because of this I am using a walker. I don't know yet when or if I'll ever get out of it. I'm working hard to heal, trying to overcome & be independent in whatever I can do, working towards asking for help & accepting myself as I am, however that nay be. I have PTSD from both my childhood and my marriage. That is something to talk about more, privately.
I am gentle, kind, very slow to anger unless someone messes with my kids. Then I turn into some combination of a mother lion and mother bear. With people who are kind to my children, I do not show anger very much at all, I try to softly talk things out until all misunderstandings are resolved peacefully. Though when this happens I will probably cry. I don't like to hurt anybody ever, I am scared of someone seriously hurting me in anger again, I work hard to be as kind and caring as I can possibly be.
I long for gentle slow safe touch. I have so rarely had that in my life, &I long to find a man with whom I can share this experience in a way that brings me the difficult-to-achieve-feeling and knowledge that I am safe. I have had this miraculous touch before, a little. I'd like more, with someone who cares about me, who perhaps I will eventually love.
Sign
Aries
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Separated
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Auburn / Red
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Homemaker
My Speciality Is
Research / Science / Engineering
My Job Title Is
Mom; mathematician, physicist, teacher
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
There Is No Noise
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cooking, Family, Internet, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Tv, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Lunch or dinner, lots of conversation, if all goes well a walk somewhere close by, sitting and talking more. If all goes very well, a gentle kiss, platonic touch, asking for a second date.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Learning to Cook.
Learning more languages.
Learning more math and physics and astronomy.
Learning to Trust a man's touch- did it once, I think I can again, I want to very much. I long for this.
Learning more languages.
Learning more math and physics and astronomy.
Learning to Trust a man's touch- did it once, I think I can again, I want to very much. I long for this.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker
Views
My Religion Is
Jewish
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
Raise my children well.
Get my PhD in Geophysics or Astrophysics or Mathematics.
Find a Man to Love me Gently and Kindly Forever.
Do whatever I can to make this world a better place.
Sing!
Get my PhD in Geophysics or Astrophysics or Mathematics.
Find a Man to Love me Gently and Kindly Forever.
Do whatever I can to make this world a better place.
Sing!
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Folk, New age, Pop, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Supernatural, Reference, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is
Snuggling, Walks in the Woods, Picnics, Snuggling, Reading, Take out and movies, Snuggling, Talking, Doing Math Puzzles- and did I mention Snuggling?
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
kind
gentle
sweet
patient
caring
generous
sensitive
will talk about and listen to feelings and experiences
Arms that are strong enough to wrap around me and hold me tight
Hands that are Gentle enough to touch me softly and with love.
gentle
sweet
patient
caring
generous
sensitive
will talk about and listen to feelings and experiences
Arms that are strong enough to wrap around me and hold me tight
Hands that are Gentle enough to touch me softly and with love.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed