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Shelley420

Moffat, Colorado | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

First name
Shelley
I Would Describe Myself As
I don't even know how to describe myself anymore, there's always something coming up with me and I have over come each battle so far. I was diagnosed with a benign brain tumor in 2010 my husband at the time his comforting reaction was you're gonna have to deal with it on your own, I can't handle it. So I continued to do that then 2013 I started losing the use of my left leg diagnosed with a spinal cavernoma had to have an emergency 12in spinal cord surgery that I found out later my neurologist made a mistake on and caused me to have another 3yrs later right when I just started learning how to walk again in 2016 the same cavernoma started bleeding again so knowing I had to have the same exact surgery over again as high of a risk as it was I knew I wasn't gonna walk again. I mean what do you do with that, I had 2 sons that were counting on me I was basically being mom and dad even though dad was around and I was about to lose my legs,was already taking chemo. It definitely put things in perspective of what I needed to do,why stay with a man that was embarrassed of me already because I could barely walk didn't wanna help when I was sick instead was more concerned about the house or laundry didn't spend time with his kids..point being I couldn't go on like that so we left I spent time with my boys and did everything I could that involved running and walking even though I fell on my face a few times I got up and went again laughing and smiling the whole way for about a month and the hardest thing I had to do at that moment was to tell my kids that it's the last time I'll ever be able to do this,there is a slim chance but I may never walk again. That day killed my heart. I went through another 12hr surgery and while going through recovery in ICU I was also filling for divorce which wasn't easy. Yes the out come did leave me paralyzed waist down. That's when I lived in Mississippi. Now this past September of 2021 I made this huge change in my life and moved to Colorado,my sons came with me to start a new life a better one hopefully with better health care for me,unfortunately I'm still having things go wrong with me like I was in the hospital last April for a week and now I have this huge infection that's had me in 2 different hospitals since August 23rd because of a really really bad infection I have I'm having to take this really strong antibiotic for a couple months and ended up having to get a colostomy put in which I'm not to fond of. I keep telling myself who is gonna want someone with all this going on it's so embarrassing but if there's the slightest chance that I could I don't wanna say I deserve it but it would be nice to feel what its like to actually have a man respect me for once care about what I'm going through also likes to smile and laugh and of course it would be mutual on these things I enjoy making someone happy...I know there's gotta be a good man out there somewhere even if hes old fashioned or not I wouldn't even mind that.
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 1 (1.55 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian